Dating Diaries: Toni Terry, or Cheryl Cole - Whose side are you on?

Quite frankly, Dating Diaries is becoming increasingly tired of all the supposed infidelity circling around various celebrity circles.

We have seen less than pleasant reports and accusations coming from the Tiger Woods, John Terry, Ashley Cole, and Vernon Kay camps, and while I have no interest in commenting on something I have little knowledge on, I am intrigued into the level of interest it has generated.

Two sides have been formed. Cheryl's 'I've had enough, I've been embarrassed enough already' Cole's side, and Toni 'why do I want to lose my soul mate' Terry's side. The question is, whose side are you on?

To me, this is simple. Go right back to the beginning, that first date, the first kiss, the first weekend away, and then imagine that your date was seeing other people at the same time. Does this make the decision any clearer? I hope so.

Clearly, there are other facts that I'm not privy to, and I'm purposefully oversimplifying the situation, but it doesn't disguise the fact that the problem cannot be painted over, the cracks will reappear.

Dating Diaries stance is simple. Love is about respect. If you don't respect your spouse enough to stay faithful, then you have to question whether it is love you feel, or rather familiarity and/or comfort.

Featured dating venue

I managed to prise myself away from Celebrity based rumours, and set about finding out a couple of new and interesting ideas for dates.

Perhaps surprisingly, a trip to Harrods provided the inspiration this week.

This legendary shopping emporium really does provide a wonderful place to go on a date. The place is alive with activity, restaurants, things to play with, and puppies! If you are nervous about the date, there is plenty of inspiration to strike up some conversation topics, and it has a very romantic and magical feel to it. If your in the area, or in our nations capital, try out its very unique experience.

Final mention

I have recently had my eyesight treated with Laser Eye treatment from 'Ultralase'. As a serial short-sighted person, who refused glasses at all costs, and as a result, suffered badly in the dating game, I am over the moon with the results.

One of first things I noticed was that the ability to become more sociable in pubs, bars, clubs etc. I can now approach people knowing who they are, and more importantly in the dating world, what they look like! If you interested in this, have a look at www.ultralase.com

Needless to say, I strongly recommend the treatment, and Ultralase were fantastic! I now understand what 'ABC' were singing about, 'The look of Love'!

To end this week, Dating Diaries would like to send our best wishes to Tiffany Forster, and Hugo Baldwin, who will be getting married on Friday 12th Feb. Tiffany and Hugo are quite simply a fantastic couple, and we wish them all the very best luck for the future.